Share Your Stories and Memories about Reb Breinholt
We would love to have anyone who would like, share a story or memory of our Father, Brother, Son and Friend Reb Breinholt. Please post it in the comment section of this post
Uncle Reb was no ordinary guy. He always leading by example especially when he was showing us how to properly get into some shenanigans. He brought me miles and miles of green and white, dot matrix paper, when I was little, so I could draw to my hearts content. He took Tif and me on a river canoeing trip one summer and taught us how to navigate the river. He helped me make my wedding video and brought "it's a boy!" balloons to my wedding breakfast. He always gave me a pat on the head as a greeting. When I saw him on Fathers Day he patted my head. My dad and Uncle Reb are the only people who still pat my head now that I'm an adult, I cherish it. He always had a calm, peaceful presence, he will be greatly missed.
The memories I have of Uncle Reb are those of spending time in his home and with his family. His home always felt peaceful and welcoming. Aunt Marsha and him were the perfect fit always showing an example of a strong and loving couple. All of their children (my cousins) always astonished me with their fun spirits and bonds as a family. The root to that being Uncle Reb. I'm so thankful that I have been given the blessing to have such incredible members in my family.
I remember getting to ride with Uncle Reb in his car when I was younger. I'm not sure how he did it, but he set a timer on his dash and told me it would eject my seat when the timer hit 0. Lucky for me we reached our destination before then. I'm sure he though it was funny.
Certainly I remember sleepovers, birthday parties and family reunions where Reb was the life of the party- even the entertaining submissions he made to the family letters. But I will never forget the example he gave me of true charity. In April 2006 my baby Natalie was stillborn. Understandably most people did not know what, if anything, to say to me and my husband. I don't know if it was his experience as a bishop, a father or simply the fact that he sincerely loved me and my family- but the thoughtful card and gift he and Marsha sent were one of the very few that brought me comfort. Since then I have tried to remember how important it was to me that he acknowledged my sorrow whenever I encounter others who are mourning. The beautiful ceramic doll and card expressing his concern and love have been prominently displayed in my bedroom for years. They mean even more to me now as I think of my little girl meeting the Uncle who loved her before he even knew her. I am so grateful that I grew up knowing a sincerely caring and intuitive man like my Uncle Reb. It was just a bonus that he was also a champion watermelon-seed-spitter. Love Always, Heather Breinholt Thomas
Reb is one of the greatest men I know. He finds ways to make sure all are comfortable and happy. I remember being at a family reunion just days after he was called to be bishop, I'm sure he had a lot on his mind, but he focused on helping the little kids and built the grandest fort out of wood logs for them to enjoy. Just a few months ago when grandma Breinholt was in the hospital Reb spent the entire night sitting up in a chair so she could feel comforted. He has taken such great care of Grandpa, checking on him daily and attending to every need. Reb is the family glue, whenever there is a decision to be made, he examines the situation, listens to all input, then provides a solution. He never hesitates to serve. Reb and Marsha are a team, each complimenting the other as they serve and help many. Rebs example of service and his big heart have touched us all, he makes you want to be a better person, his example is powerful! The love for his children is evident in the way he lived his life, his focus was family. Family is everything to Reb. Last Saturday we listened as Reb read a missionary letter to Grandpa Breinholt that Abram had sent, Rebs eyes filled with tears as he told how Abram was sharing the gospel, he loved all his grandchildren. Family is everything!
When I was a little girl I was playing with my best friend Jill. I needed to use the bathroom, so I went into her house. I went into the hall, and as I turned to go into the bathroom I saw Reb nibbling Marsha's ear. Of course at the time I was shocked and embarrassed, but looking back it was adorable. I was a witness to a rare and amazing thing...true love.
My family went to Fish Lake with Breinholts when I was about 12. Reb, Jill, my Dad, and I went fishing one morning on the lake. While we were fishing a huge, dark, black cloud started coming our way. Reb called it a "rumbojumbulous" cloud, which I thought was hilarious at the time. Jill corrected him of course. To this day I still call them "rumbojumbulous" clouds.
Reb was a huge part of my life, but my favorite thing about him were his emotions. I loved his laugh and I loved the way he would try not to cry (which never worked.)
"Because I knew him, I have been changed for good." That line from a song in Wicked sums up my thoughts about Reb. He was the kindest, most loving person I have ever known.
Reb was always there for me. From installing swamp coolers to bricking my carport, I could always count on him. He introduced our neighborhood to computers. We had those punch cards everywhere thanks to Reb. He was a great friend to Karen and me, and a great influence on our whole family. We invited him to Kate's wedding. Hope he was there as we set a special display for him. Friends forever, the Hewitts.
Reb was a true friend, always there for us. We worked together on countless projects - installing swamp coolers, bricking car ports, irrigating the stake farm, shoveling roofs when the snow was extreme, it goes on and on, service and love is the great legacy of Reb. Friends forever. The Hewitts
Reb was truly a great man. He raised such an amazing family and was loved by everyone. He had a huge caring heart and so much patience. I love all of you Brienholts especially my polyester princess nancy. Please know I am here for all of you if need anything. Love amber ~ Amber Mills (rigdon), Wvc, Utah
Reb Breinholt is our Grandpa, and he is a great man. He was great at origami, and was my (Truman's) origami buddy. He was also a great carver, and was my (Elsie's) carving buddy. We will see you after this life is over, Grandpa. We love you and miss you, and will think of you always. Love you! ~ Truman and Elsie Breinholt-Mitchell, Salt Lake City, Utah
I am sure sorry to hear about Reb passing away. Reb and I talked a lot about fishing and computers; Reb taught me a lot about computer's every once in awhile I would have a problem with my computer. I think Reb's hair was getting little bit grayer, because it wasn't as easy sometimes to figure it out but Reb did. Reb and I would talk a lot about Fish Lake on how he liked to go out there and fish when, Reb had time for it. Sometime I would bring in some fresh fish after fishing for the weekend, for Reb, and he always did say they were delicious. . Reb was a good friend and will be missed. Sergeant J.J.Willhard Royal Wood Office Plaza Security ~ JJ Willhard, West Valley City, Utah
Working with the "Wizard" for the past several years has been a blessing in my life. Reb has more patience than Job. Words can't describe what kind of man Reb is. He is truly one of my heroes. ~ Preston Cochrane, Salt Lake City, Utah
Robert was a good friend all those school years in Utah. I still remember the nights we did Calculus and German homework together. He was a gentle soul. ~ Mark Riches, San Diego, California
When our son, Seth, married Nancy, Reb and Marsha's wonderful daughter, our family grew to include not only her, but as the years have passed - Reb and Marsha, and Nancy's brothers, sisters, and their families, too.
We have spent many happy hours in the Breinholt home; and after one of Marsha's marvelous meals, have shared with Reb the joy of kitchen duty, of watching a Jazz game, or of playing with our grandchildren together. We have been so welcomed in their home; and we feel Reb's passing with a great sense of loss and sorrow.
We know that because he is a valiant servant of the Lord, Reb's service continues much magnified in his eternal future.
We express our deepest sympathy and heartfelt love to his family at this time of loss. ~ Ron and Cynthia Mitchell, Lubbock, Texas
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Uncle Reb was no ordinary guy. He always leading by example especially when he was showing us how to properly get into some shenanigans. He brought me miles and miles of green and white, dot matrix paper, when I was little, so I could draw to my hearts content. He took Tif and me on a river canoeing trip one summer and taught us how to navigate the river. He helped me make my wedding video and brought "it's a boy!" balloons to my wedding breakfast. He always gave me a pat on the head as a greeting. When I saw him on Fathers Day he patted my head. My dad and Uncle Reb are the only people who still pat my head now that I'm an adult, I cherish it. He always had a calm, peaceful presence, he will be greatly missed.
The memories I have of Uncle Reb are those of spending time in his home and with his family. His home always felt peaceful and welcoming. Aunt Marsha and him were the perfect fit always showing an example of a strong and loving couple. All of their children (my cousins) always astonished me with their fun spirits and bonds as a family. The root to that being Uncle Reb. I'm so thankful that I have been given the blessing to have such incredible members in my family.
I remember getting to ride with Uncle Reb in his car when I was younger. I'm not sure how he did it, but he set a timer on his dash and told me it would eject my seat when the timer hit 0. Lucky for me we reached our destination before then. I'm sure he though it was funny.
Certainly I remember sleepovers, birthday parties and family reunions where Reb was the life of the party- even the entertaining submissions he made to the family letters. But I will never forget the example he gave me of true charity.
In April 2006 my baby Natalie was stillborn. Understandably most people did not know what, if anything, to say to me and my husband. I don't know if it was his experience as a bishop, a father or simply the fact that he sincerely loved me and my family- but the thoughtful card and gift he and Marsha sent were one of the very few that brought me comfort.
Since then I have tried to remember how important it was to me that he acknowledged my sorrow whenever I encounter others who are mourning.
The beautiful ceramic doll and card expressing his concern and love have been prominently displayed in my bedroom for years. They mean even more to me now as I think of my little girl meeting the Uncle who loved her before he even knew her.
I am so grateful that I grew up knowing a sincerely caring and intuitive man like my Uncle Reb. It was just a bonus that he was also a champion watermelon-seed-spitter. Love Always, Heather Breinholt Thomas
Reb is one of the greatest men I know. He finds ways to make sure all are comfortable and happy. I remember being at a family reunion just days after he was called to be bishop, I'm sure he had a lot on his mind, but he focused on helping the little kids and built the grandest fort out of wood logs for them to enjoy. Just a few months ago when grandma Breinholt was in the hospital Reb spent the entire night sitting up in a chair so she could feel comforted. He has taken such great care of Grandpa, checking on him daily and attending to every need. Reb is the family glue, whenever there is a decision to be made, he examines the situation, listens to all input, then provides a solution. He never hesitates to serve. Reb and Marsha are a team, each complimenting the other as they serve and help many. Rebs example of service and his big heart have touched us all, he makes you want to be a better person, his example is powerful! The love for his children is evident in the way he lived his life, his focus was family. Family is everything to Reb. Last Saturday we listened as Reb read a missionary letter to Grandpa Breinholt that Abram had sent, Rebs eyes filled with tears as he told how Abram was sharing the gospel, he loved all his grandchildren. Family is everything!
When I was a little girl I was playing with my best friend Jill. I needed to use the bathroom, so I went into her house. I went into the hall, and as I turned to go into the bathroom I saw Reb nibbling Marsha's ear. Of course at the time I was shocked and embarrassed, but looking back it was adorable. I was a witness to a rare and amazing thing...true love.
My family went to Fish Lake with Breinholts when I was about 12. Reb, Jill, my Dad, and I went fishing one morning on the lake. While we were fishing a huge, dark, black cloud started coming our way. Reb called it a "rumbojumbulous" cloud, which I thought was hilarious at the time. Jill corrected him of course. To this day I still call them "rumbojumbulous" clouds.
Reb was a huge part of my life, but my favorite thing about him were his emotions. I loved his laugh and I loved the way he would try not to cry (which never worked.)
"Because I knew him, I have been changed for good."
That line from a song in Wicked sums up my thoughts about Reb. He was the kindest, most loving person I have ever known.
Sara Hewitt Sofonia
Reb was always there for me. From installing swamp coolers to bricking my carport, I could always count on him. He introduced our neighborhood to computers. We had those punch cards everywhere thanks to Reb. He was a great friend to Karen and me, and a great influence on our whole family. We invited him to Kate's wedding. Hope he was there as we set a special display for him. Friends forever, the Hewitts.
Reb was a true friend, always there for us. We worked together on countless projects - installing swamp coolers, bricking car ports, irrigating the stake farm, shoveling roofs when the snow was extreme, it goes on and on, service and love is the great legacy of Reb. Friends forever.
The Hewitts
Reb's kindness to me and my family will not be forgotten. He was someone that I will always look up to.
~ Jay Stratton, Seattle, Washington
Reb was truly a great man. He raised such an amazing family and was loved by everyone. He had a huge caring heart and so much patience. I love all of you Brienholts especially my polyester princess nancy. Please know I am here for all of you if need anything. Love amber
~ Amber Mills (rigdon), Wvc, Utah
Reb Breinholt is our Grandpa, and he is a great man. He was great at origami, and was my (Truman's) origami buddy. He was also a great carver, and was my (Elsie's) carving buddy. We will see you after this life is over, Grandpa. We love you and miss you, and will think of you always. Love you!
~ Truman and Elsie Breinholt-Mitchell, Salt Lake City, Utah
I am sure sorry to hear about Reb passing away. Reb and I talked a lot about fishing and computers; Reb taught me a lot about computer's every once in awhile I would have a problem with my computer. I think Reb's hair was getting little bit grayer, because it wasn't as easy sometimes to figure it out but Reb did. Reb and I would talk a lot about Fish Lake on how he liked to go out there and fish when, Reb had time for it. Sometime I would bring in some fresh fish after fishing for the weekend, for Reb, and he always did say they were delicious. . Reb was a good friend and will be missed. Sergeant J.J.Willhard Royal Wood Office Plaza Security
~ JJ Willhard, West Valley City, Utah
Working with the "Wizard" for the past several years has been a blessing in my life. Reb has more patience than Job. Words can't describe what kind of man Reb is. He is truly one of my heroes.
~ Preston Cochrane, Salt Lake City, Utah
Robert was a good friend all those school years in Utah. I still remember the nights we did Calculus and German homework together. He was a gentle soul.
~ Mark Riches, San Diego, California
When our son, Seth, married Nancy, Reb and Marsha's wonderful daughter, our family grew to include not only her, but as the years have passed - Reb and Marsha, and Nancy's brothers, sisters, and their families, too.
We have spent many happy hours in the Breinholt home; and after one of Marsha's marvelous meals, have shared with Reb the joy of kitchen duty, of watching a Jazz game, or of playing with our grandchildren together. We have been so welcomed in their home; and we feel Reb's passing with a great sense of loss and sorrow.
We know that because he is a valiant servant of the Lord, Reb's service continues much magnified in his eternal future.
We express our deepest sympathy and heartfelt love to his family at this time of loss.
~ Ron and Cynthia Mitchell, Lubbock, Texas
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